
Many of us have been struck in recent years by what we’ve learned about oppression, marginalization, and other forms of inequity in our culture, our relationships, our selves.
Many of us struggle to figure out how to make things better—without making things worse. I’ve struggled, too.
I developed The Tender Work as way pathway into the delicate and fraught terrain of equity work. It’s an invitation to gently, resolutely learn how to unmask the social world—to bolster our agency in it.
WHAT I OFFER
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1:1 Coaching
Settle your equity & anti-oppression efforts
on a foundation of awareness, personal work & accountability -
Consultation
Keen guidance for teams, leaders & visionaries
considering both reality and the world you want to create
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Facilitation
Equity-infused, relationship-centric, anti-oppression education
with uncommon attention to how content is conveyed
Events
I offer workshops, meetings and circles infused with the stuff of equity: shared voices, deep listening, non-hierarchical set-ups that convey anti-oppression sensibilities in their very structure. I facilitate alone or with fabulous colleagues.
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what Clients say





Several organizations who I learn from, respect, and follow have begun offering short free or reduced fee Office Hours. I love this model and how it supports human connection and relationality. You're free to show up wherever you're at in your feelings, experiences, or dilemmas as someone committed anti-oppression and liberatory practices. Your action…